I think is a good set up... The Wingback is a little too much in a 442 imo. Maybe the WP on support,with behind him, just a Fullback on attack( I noticed that the Fullback on attack is less adventurous than a Wingback on support.) On the left, the Winger on attack, and the Fullback on support( For a more balanced setup).
About instructions,its just maybe me but the force opposition outside instruction, I find a little more interesting coupled with the lower defensive line.
The more often is the subject, and frankly I dont know what to do. I just won an away game with using less urgent. I think it was the answer,but I lost the game after.
With this mentality, and on 442, I won't use counter too. Just hold shape. With this set up, of course. The counter, why not, but I dont think you have enough player for attack space. I think its better to use it with attack duty on each side.
I hope you'll find balanced.